Have you been naughty or nice?

Is Santa bringing you what you want for Christmas?

Whether it be a generous sugar daddy or sexy sugar baby, I hope you get your wish

I have been listening to you sugar babies, and finally I have the Sugar Daddy 101 eBook on sale for only 99 cents on www.amazon.com! Just click the link to get your copy.

The 99 cent sale on www.amazon.com will only last for one month.

You don’t have to have a Kindle to read the eBook, but Kindles are so cool to have. You can read tons of eBooks on it. Pick one up here

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Check out the press release here.

Leidra Lawson, author of Sugar Daddy 101 and founding mother of the sugar daddy lifestyle movement, announces her 1st Annual Sugar Baby Savings and Entrepreneurship National Workshop Tour. Workshops will take place in major cities across the United States. It kicks off in Atlanta and will continue in: Miami, Chicago, New York, Los Angeles, starting Oct. 4, 2011. Workshops will take place at various venues and via Skype. The cost ranges: $79 to $200.

The Sugar Baby Savings and Entrepreneurship Workshop will focus on:

• Funding college with little or no loans
• Finding jobs
• Saving money
• Debt elimination
• Starting a business

The workshops are geared toward female college students looking to date a rich man. Some scholarships are available donated by some of Ms. Lawson’s rich men sugar daddy friends.

Sign up now for a workshop. Click here

Sugar Daddy 101 is now available on Amazon.com Kindle! Get your copy today.

Recently Sugar Daddy Diary, author David Montrose posted on his blog, disagreeing about a section of my Sugar Daddy 101 book talking about women being viewed as sexual objects. His original post is right here on his blog. Here is what he posted:

I got a copy of my friend Leidra Lawson’s book and devoured it. But there was one thing that stood out. She says that ‘women are still thought of as sexual objects’.

C’mon Leidra, this is the 21st century and for my daughter’s sake I hope you are wrong.

So why do I think that this is a stereotype? Well, because in the past 10 years at least, women have made some great strides in business, acting , visibility in society etc.
I see it even on Wall street where I work. You now have senior managers and wealthy traders who are women. And sure, they do look good and some are very attractive.
But first and foremost their employers still employ them (and pay some of them really big bucks!) because they do a job, not because they have a nice figure. Of course their hot figure is just an extra. But to say that someone is thought of as a sexual being alone, is so 1980s.

I would respectfully disagree with that comment.

I ‘m posting my response right now, which is:

David,

There is no doubt that women have taken many strides in business. I’m so happy to see great things for women: moving up the corporate ladder, opening businesses and making money. But still, in a “man’s world” women are still thought of as sexual objects.

Example: Recently I heard a group of successful, Ivy League educated men talking about how ugly Hillary Clinton is, that she was a bulldog in a skirt, etc…you get the drift. She is being judged by her looks, in addition, to her decision making ability that directly relate to how our country is being run. I don’t think these same men would have made comments on how “ugly” Alan Greenspan is; they would have just been discussing his interest rate policies.  I respectfully disagree with, but let’s do keep the debate going!

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The kickoff for the  Official Leidra Lawson, Sugar Daddy 101 “Get Some Sugar” Facebook and Twitter Contests is great!

Sugar Daddy 101 Book

Fans and everyone get a chance to win great prizes!  Check the “Discussions” and Wall sections of my Facebook Fan Page or here on my blog to get info on prizes, deadlines, contest rules, and a list of winners

Start Date

The second contest will begin the week March 28, 2011  I will post when it starts

Prizes

Sugar Daddy 101 (eBook or paperback , 186 pages long)

Sugar Daddy 101 T-shirt

20 minute phone consultation with Leidra Lawson

Facebook Contest Rules

Be my friend on Facebook: www.facebook.com/leidra.lawson

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Post contest to your wall. Copy and paste this on your wall: “Enter Leidra Lawson’s,  Sugar Daddy 101 FB contest.  She’s giving away a book, t-shirt, and phone consultation www.facebook.com/leidra.lawson

It’s that easy to enter to win!

To Claim Prizes

Winners will be announced on Facebook and notified directly by FB email.

Winners must send an email to verify that prizes will be claimed within 72 hours of receiving notification of winning from Leidra Lawson.

A direct email address and mailing address must be provided within 72 hours to claim prizes and have them mailed.

Phone consultations must be scheduled within 10 days of receiving notification of winning. If calling located outside the U.S. , you must have Skype or use Google Phone to do a consultation.

Start Date

Begins Thursday March 17, 2011 ends Thursday March 24, 2011

Prizes

Sugar Daddy 101 (eBook or paperback ,186 pages)

Sugar Daddy 101 T-shirt

20 minute phone workshop (consultation) with Leidra Lawson

Twitter Contest Rules

Add me on Twitter: www.twitter.com/leidralawson

Then tweet or retweet this: #CONTEST #LeidraLawson #SugarDaddy101. Win book, tshirt, phoneworkshop @leidralawson

It’s that easy to enter to win!

To Claim Prizes

Winners will be announced on Twitter, notified by a Tweet to your Twitter account .

Winners must send an email to verify that prizes will be claimed within 72 hours of receiving notification of winning from Leidra Lawson. Send to queensugarbaby@yahoo.com

A direct email address and mailing address must be provided within 72 hours to claim prizes and have them mailed. Send to: queensugarbaby@yahoo.com

Phone consultations must be scheduled within 10 days of receiving notification of winning. If calling from outside the U.S., you must have Skype or use Google Phone to do a consultation.

Is He Straight or Gay?

Dear Leidra,

I have been dating this guy for 4 months and something is off with him. We kiss and make out and I think maybe we are moving towards having sex pretty soon. But I get the feeling that he is gay.

When we first met, Jeff told me a story about how some guy kind of hit on him when he went on a vacation several years ago. He said he was by himself walking near a pathway near the beach and a guy kept looking at him while walking behind some bushes nearby. The man obviously wanted Jeff to follow him. He saw the man get on his knees and give another man a blow job and then spit out “you-know-what” after finishing. I thought that was a rather strange for a straight guy to say.

Then a month later, he told me about how in college he got hit on all of the time. And finally, we watched a movie in which a very good looking actor was baring his naked ass on the screen. The actor’s ass did look good and Jeff told me how good his ass looked too.

I am confused. On the one hand he looks manly and doesn’t act gay, but then the other hand I am sick and tired of Jeff talking about men this way.Do you think he is gay?

I Want To Know in California

Dear Want To Know,

Have you ever heard the saying that if it sounds like a duck, acts like a duck, then it is duck?

I think deep down inside, you know that he is gay or at the very least, bisexual. Women sometimes ignore their instincts, especially when they feel they lack experience in a situation. Don’t feel that just because you don’t have much experience with men, that you don’t have a lot experience with what you hear and feel. And what you hear is your boyfriend telling you things that point to him being gay.

It is very interesting that you don’t call the man that you have been dating for four months, “boyfriend.” Is it because that you don’t feel he is being real with you? I would think dating a man more than two months would make him a boyfriend.

I also think it is interesting that you have not consummated your relationship with Jeff. You didn’t mention that you had an agreement to abstain from sex or that you didn’t want to have sex with him, so I am inclined to believe that he doesn’t want to because he desires men instead.

And honestly what else do you need to hear to convince you that he is gay? A straight guy follows a man behind a bush and watches him give another man a blow job? That means Jeff had to be standing there for at least 7 minutes or longer, depending on how long it took for them to complete their act. I wonder if he was really talking about himself or was he standing on the sideline masturbating? And then the rest of the stories he told you can’t be ignored.

It could be that Jeff is in denial and has had these encounters with men on an inconsistent basis, and he thinks that dating you can set things right. Some gay friends told me that due to the pressure of being gay that they dated and sometimes even married women. But they couldn’t suppress the truth for long, and eventually ended those fake relationships and started living gay.

If Jeff is bisexual, he could be testing you by telling you these stories to see how you react. Maybe he hopes you would accept bisexuality. You never did tell me what you said when he told you these things. I am inclined to believe that you said nothing, and he may believe that you are fine with what he is telling you. Being upfront with you about the situation would be the way to go, if this is the case with him.

You should tell him what you really feel and tell him to think about his sexuality and not play games with you. I think you should stop seeing Jeff since you have some reservations about the relationship. That is not healthy for you and Jeff emotionally. Once he accepts who he really is (whether that is bisexual or gay), then he can chose an appropriate mate that is okay with that decision.

Leidra Lawson Copyright

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Ask Leidra
What you Need to Know in… and Out of the Sheets

How Can I Get a Long-Term Sugar Baby?

Dear Leidra,

I love your website, your book, and I wanted to let you know that you are doing a wonderful service. There are so many ladies out there who would love to be spoiled by
the right man, and there are so many men who love to spoil and pamper. Thank
you for spreading the word!

I have been on Yahoo for three years seeking a sugar baby. I have never used any other method to find one. But, I am having difficulty in keeping a sugar daddy relation for more than four months.

I hate overuse of the term “sugar daddy”, as it seems any man who can take a lady to dinner considers himself a sugar daddy these days. I consider myself a true sugar daddy. I am 46 years old and live in Florida. I am somewhat, happily married with two young children and wish to remain married. I own a global business with offices in Florida, Italy, and Chicago. I work very hard and enjoy the company of a young, sexy woman. I feel guilty about cheating on my wife, but I feel she doesn’t understand me and rarely wants to have sex with me.

I love to have a good time, enjoy travel and fine dining. I would like to meet a sugar baby who is open minded, will not complain, outgoing, happy, beautiful, sexy, passionate, busy with her life, and not seeking a relationship—possibly even married.) I would prefer a sugar baby whom resides in Florida, but I am open to other places, especially Italy. It is important that this sort of relationship add to both of our lives.

I can offer my sugar baby a number of things: exotic vacations, clothes, an apartment, an allowance, jewelry, gifts, etc. I have given a combination of all of these things to previous sugar babies. The one thing I do not do is give everything upfront and then hope the situation works. I believe that intelligent people can tell quickly if things will work out or not and I am not looking to get burned.

I would love any additional tips that will give me success in finding that special long-term sugar baby.

Best Regards
Eric. L

Hello Eric,
Thanks so much for the encouragement. I am glad to spread the word about a lifestyle enjoyed by a lot of people.

Your letter was very thorough, and I have a few comments and suggestions that will help you. I make many suggestions in my book for women. One of the things I teach is to use other places, besides the Internet, to meet men. I would suggest you do a male version of “freestyling” as a described in my book. Freestyling is simply going places to meet people. This could be: charity events, upscale restaurants, while shopping, etc.

You said that you want a woman that “will not complain.” I do not know what planet you come from, but women complain from time to time, as well as men. LOL Do not expect a woman to be perfect, like a robot wife from “Stepford Wives.” I suspect that you are setting your expectations too high and that is why you can’t keep a sugar baby for more than four months. You also mentioned that your wife doesn’t understand you and doesn’t want sex. Could it be in part of you have unrealistic expectations of her too? Maybe you will find that your wife understands you more and will crave sex if you change your approach. And who knows, maybe by working on your marriage, you will find that you don’t need a sugar baby relationship on the side anymore.

Leidra Lawson, Author of Sugar Daddy 101

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